Samantha Darby

Samantha is a #girlmom to three little ladies, and a Senior Lifestyle Editor and writer for Romper. She began at Romper in 2015 as a lifestyle writer before the site officially launched, working out of Google docs when Romper didn’t even have a name, and became a lifestyle editor in 2017. In 2022, she was promoted to Senior Lifestyle Editor. Samantha covers a wide variety of topics under the lifestyle umbrella, including parenting, TTC, pregnancy, sex and relationships, and product roundups. She also focuses a lot of her work on baby name coverage, essays about motherhood, children’s books, and holiday content. She loves a good, wholesome, Jennifer Garner-vibes essay.

In 2020, she won a BDG Edit Award for Best Headline for When Grandmas Duel, We All Win, Don’t We?

Before working at Romper, Samantha worked as a freelance writer and had essays published at Motherlode, HelloGiggles, Barnes & Noble Kids, Babble, Work It, Mom!, and The Huffington Post. She also dabbled a bit in digital marketing and writing content for small businesses. She’s currently working on a novel.

On her way to becoming a full-time writer and editor, Samantha was a professional actor in Atlanta, doing stand-up comedy, sketch comedy, theatre, and generally auditioning her heart out. It was good practice for motherhood, where she routinely has to follow the exact scripts her daughters give her while playing Barbies. She lives in Georgia with her husband and her three girls — Alice, Lucy, and Clara.

You can contact Samantha by email at samantha.darby@bustle.com or find her on Twitter or LinkedIn.

Love *Is* An Open Door

This Dad Says We Need To “Leave The Door Open” More For Our Kids

By Samantha Darby

When we’re working out, when we’re sneaking away for quiet time, when we just need a moment to focus — maybe the door being open isn’t such a bad idea.

Too Much Privacy?

Should Teens Have Locks On Their Bedroom Doors?

By Samantha Darby

One mom asked Reddit if she's creating an “unsafe environment” by letting her teen have a door lock.

"Good Girl" but better

“Praise Kink” Is The Perfect Mixture Of Dirty Talk & Affirmations

By Samantha Darby

And it can make you feel really seen during sex.

Screen-Free Time Is One Thing, But This? Nah.

This Mom Says She’s Not Taking Her Kid’s Phone Away As Punishment Anymore

By Samantha Darby

It's a quick way to get your point across, but is it actually effective?

Oh boy.

“Should I Tell My Husband I Want To Be With A Woman?” & 28 Other Sex Confessions

By Samantha Darby

Having a solid partnership is work.

We Need An Extra Grown-Up

What Do You Do When You’re Tired On Your Husband Being "The Fun Parent"?

By Samantha Darby

And when you’re tired of cleaning up his mess when he has an idea.

This Is Real Generational Wealth

5 Creative Ways You Can Preserve Memories Of Your Parents *Now* For You & Your Kids

By Samantha Darby

You don't want to wake up one day and wish you had even just one recording of their voice.

Send Help Plz

"Institutional Lag" Is One Big Reason Working Moms Are Barely Holding It Together

By Samantha Darby

The school day schedule we use today was built when we had a very different home labor setup, and it *shows.*

Communication Is Key

One Mom Asked Reddit, “How Do You Maintain A Close Relationship With Your Teens?”

By Samantha Darby

And there are some incredibly wholesome tips.

Shhh

“I Hate The Way My Husband Parents Our Daughters” & 33 Other Mom Confessions

By Samantha Darby

It’s time to let it out, y’all.

Windows Down, Obviously

We’ve Got To Talk About Cigarette Mom Rock

By Samantha Darby

Put on your Pond’s cold cream and crank it up.

What's the real question here?

A Mom Is Wondering: How Often Is Everyone’s Partner Going To The Bar?

By Samantha Darby

(But we know this is about more than just “going to the bar,” don’t we?)

Touched The F Out

“Being A SAHM Killed My Sex Drive”

By Samantha Darby

A mom just like us — comparing prices at the grocery store, cheering at the baseball field three times a week, running PTA meetings — shares her sex story, no matter how “boring” or “shocking” it may be.

Help, I Want To Sleep

Why Does All My Anxiety Come In The Middle Of The Night?

By Samantha Darby

Like a sleep paralysis demon, except it's just a steady stream of "what-ifs."

Oh so it's *flexible*

My Love Language Changed After 9 Years Of Marriage & It Actually Makes So Much Sense

By Samantha Darby

You mean after having three kids, my relationship is different?

Solidarity

“I’ve Never Had An Orgasm With My Husband Of 23 Years” & 33 Other Mom Confessions

By Samantha Darby

Moms have a lot to say RN.

Inner Demons, GTFO

I Don't Think My Husband Likes Me. Now What?

By Samantha Darby

Honestly, therapists say you might just need a nap.

Girl Power

27 Baby Girl Names Inspired By Iconic Women In History

By Samantha Darby

If you want a name that feels strong, steady, and brave, this is the list for you.

BFF, LYLAS

The Secret To Seeing Your Friends More As A Busy Parent? Lower The Bar

By Samantha Darby

The trick is to stop overthinking it, and these low-pressure ideas can help.

The Nice Guy > "Alpha"

Love Is Blind Contestants Seem To Have Forgotten Contentment *Is* The Goal

By Samantha Darby

I blame hustle culture for ruining everyone’s idea of actual happiness.